| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 59 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 12/10/1946 |
| Date of Death | 29/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,851 since 12/06/2007 |
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margaret (margie)beck (nee alderson) was the devoted wife of billy for 47years they were
inseperable. Between them had 4children ******,Shauna,William and Sandra,and 9grandchildren of which
she was truly devoted to and in turn loved+adored by each+evry1 ov them!
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My mam died on the 29,September 2006 she was 59yrs old!A week away from her 60th birthday.She
worked as a homehelp for 20+years and carried on her loving caring ways for anyone and everyone she
could right to the end!She lived in pennywell then later moved to Pallion where she remained.
Two years ago after a routine mamagram my mam was diagnosed with breast cancer.After a small
operation and a course of radiotherapy every thing seemed to be going well,untill Jan 06!Having
filled with fluid and having to be admited back to hospital we were told the cancer had
returned,this time tho it had spread everywhere and all they could do was control it but not cure
it!Nobody had taken the time to do any follow up on her and it was too late! My mam was the bravest
lady i have ever or am ever likey to know and my heart bursts with pride to say she was mine.
After months of chemo,hair loss,weight loss,abscesses,sores and everything else that goes with
it,again it was good news from the doc,he,d shrunk the cancer from 2000 to 700he was so pleased he
stopped her chemo.After a few weeks again she filled with fluid and again was admitted to have it
drained!We were told later that day having had the drain fitted that she was in the final stages of
terminal cancer!We were shocked and horrified.we learned later that they,d taken 3+a half litres of
fluid from her in less than an hour,which was far too quick and had sent her body into shock.She
died later that night!
AND OUR WORLD FELL APART BEYOND RECOGNITION !!!!!
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Her first great grandson arrived 3/1/08
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JAMEZ WILLIAM
THANKYOU FOR SENDING HIM TO US SAFELY MAM!
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we did as you wouldve wished!
hello mam sorry i havent been on sooner,but its been a bit hard lately with your memory and things as you probably already know!Well we did it in true 'MARGIE STYLE'got a few of ur closest freinds together went to yours+had a good laugh+a drink!we all did u proud mam+kept our spirits up+more importantly my dads!Your freinds are living proof of the fantastic person you were mam,without their love,care+ support over this last year,the journey would,ve been unbearable!Likewise auntie Edith+uncle Don they,ve been like rocks for me,shauna+me dad!they,ve been there without hesitation day or nite!I wouldnt know where to start to find the words to thank them enough,i only hope i can show them one day!Those who loved you most mam have truly showed it through their loyalty to you!Im so proud such a loved+respected lady was the person i called MAM!I love+miss you every minute of every single day mam XXXXX
For Sandra
From the Silence of your pain, I heard my name
and on the wings of light I have come
to see the sadness in your eyes
that cry without tears
Can you see me, I am here
I will always be near you,
to calm your shattered heart
and to make you smile at the memories
Do you feel me, perhaps a soft brush of air
You ache to believe it's real
but you are afraid to hope
you brush away a strand of hair
But it was I, whispering
I am only here for a moment
The silver thread gently quivers
I will leave behind my love in a dream
When you awaken and without really knowing why
Your heart will know at last
That it is all right for now
to say goodbye.
sorry its been so long!
hi mam!Well as u probably already know things av been all up in arms here lately!i realy thought at one point my dad was coming to join u!Thankyou for coming 2 talk to him,he seems to av bucked his idea,s up a bit now!U must av heard me asking u to help!i knew i could count on u as usual!Also thanku for being with me thru my recent illness i needed u more than ever lately +sumhow i just knew u were around,You wudnt av been anywhere else knowing we needed u so much!I love+miss u every day mam!xxxxx
May you find serenity and tranquility
in a world you may not always understand.
May the pain you have known
and the conflict you have experienced
give you the strength to walk through life
facing each new situation with courage and optimism.
Always know that there are those
whose love and understanding will always be there,
even when you feel most alone.
May a kind word,
a reassuring touch,
and a warm smile
be yours every day of your life,
and may you give these gifts
as well as receive them.
May the teachings of those you admire
become part of you,
so that you may call upon them.
Remember, those whose lives you have touched
and who have touched yours
are always a part of you,
even if the encounters were less than you would have wished.
It is the content of the encounter
that is more important than its form.
May you not become too concerned with material matters,
but instead place immeasurable value
on the goodness in your heart.
Find time in each day to see beauty and love
in the world around you.
Realize that what you feel you lack in one regard
you may be more than compensated for in another.
What you feel you lack in the present
may become one of your strengths in the future.
May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility.
Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience.
May you find enough inner strength
to determine your own worth by yourself,
and not be dependent
on another's judgment of your accomplishments.
May you always feel loved.
For Sandra
Yesterday a butterfly
Came floating gently through the sky.
He soared up through the atmosphere
Then drifted close enough to hear.
I said, 'I'd love to fly with you
And sail around the way you do.
It looks like it would be such fun
To fly up toward the summer sun.
But I have not your graceful charm.
I haven't wings, just these two arms.
I've been designed to walk around.
My human feet must touch the ground.
Then magically he spoke to me
and told me what his wish would be.
He said, 'What I'd love most to do
Is walk upon God's Earth with you,
To squish its mud between my toes
Or touch my finger to my nose.
I'd love just once to walk around
With human feet to touch the ground,
But I have not two legs that swing,
I haven't arms, just these two wings.'
And so we went our separate ways
In wonder and surprise.
For we'd both seen God's precious gifts
Through someone else's eyes.
you dont have to explain a thing
Sandra i understand completely what you are going through two months before my mum died her sister-in-law died then my mum died, three weeks later her brother my uncle john died and a month later my other aunt died i had four deaths within 5 months, at the moment i am having a lot of problems at home and my husband is very ill so i cant be on here as often as i would like but your always in my thoughts and prayers, god bless and stay strong, my love always, Angela. xx
hiya margie missing you loads still carn't believe yov'e gone , i have just been up sunderland for a visit and saw billy in the club setting his lip up as usual haha it's just not the same in there without you goodnight margie love you loads karen xxx
Always on my mind
hi margie, Thinking of you always.Seen our sandra other week and shes coping well although the pain and emptiness still shows in her face! I know your in heaven watching over your family and friends and you must be proud of sandra, shes a rock for you down on earth. Dont you worry about Clayton aunty marg, comprehensive school can be a scary place for his age but hes always got our jordan who you know will look after him. Love and miss you always x
Hes growing so fast!
Aye,aye mam Well Clayton starts the comp this year!We re going up 2nite to get his badge+stuff.Cant beleive hes going there already mam i know ul b by his side tho(i hope none of my old teachers recognise me!ha!)Luckily hes nothing like me tho! 'TO GOOD FOR THIS WORLD' remember thats wot u always used to say about him!He was the apple ov ur eye!So i can imagine the state ud have urself in about him going to 'the big school' Never mind tho cos hel have u with him now!Hes still as true+loyal to u as hes ever been,he wont let u down!As so many others have since u passed,it makes me so angry to think about them people 'Plastic people'especialy wen u did wotever u could for anyone u could without hesitation!theyve proved exactly wot they are+they now who they are!But hey not to worry cos those that who truly loved u are still around making sure ur beloved Billys taken care ov and looked after!We always will be mam,thats all u asked ov us but u didnt have to ask u no wed never ever leave him!We probably treasure even more than ever now after losing u!im going to after go now mam,but il speak to u soon.Look over us mam+make sure Claytons ok!Send me some ov ur strength to help me cope,cos il never stop needing u by my side till the day i come 2 join u!I love+miss u more+more every single day xxxx
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