| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 59 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 12/10/1946 |
| Date of Death | 29/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,850 since 12/06/2007 |
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margaret (margie)beck (nee alderson) was the devoted wife of billy for 47years they were
inseperable. Between them had 4children ******,Shauna,William and Sandra,and 9grandchildren of which
she was truly devoted to and in turn loved+adored by each+evry1 ov them!
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My mam died on the 29,September 2006 she was 59yrs old!A week away from her 60th birthday.She
worked as a homehelp for 20+years and carried on her loving caring ways for anyone and everyone she
could right to the end!She lived in pennywell then later moved to Pallion where she remained.
Two years ago after a routine mamagram my mam was diagnosed with breast cancer.After a small
operation and a course of radiotherapy every thing seemed to be going well,untill Jan 06!Having
filled with fluid and having to be admited back to hospital we were told the cancer had
returned,this time tho it had spread everywhere and all they could do was control it but not cure
it!Nobody had taken the time to do any follow up on her and it was too late! My mam was the bravest
lady i have ever or am ever likey to know and my heart bursts with pride to say she was mine.
After months of chemo,hair loss,weight loss,abscesses,sores and everything else that goes with
it,again it was good news from the doc,he,d shrunk the cancer from 2000 to 700he was so pleased he
stopped her chemo.After a few weeks again she filled with fluid and again was admitted to have it
drained!We were told later that day having had the drain fitted that she was in the final stages of
terminal cancer!We were shocked and horrified.we learned later that they,d taken 3+a half litres of
fluid from her in less than an hour,which was far too quick and had sent her body into shock.She
died later that night!
AND OUR WORLD FELL APART BEYOND RECOGNITION !!!!!
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Her first great grandson arrived 3/1/08
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JAMEZ WILLIAM
THANKYOU FOR SENDING HIM TO US SAFELY MAM!
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Heart of gold
Always wanted to thank U margi for your kind words when i came to see u just after my mam died never got round to it so hopefully U will hear my words now, Looking at pictures of that huge company that Used to sit in Buffs club in the 80s with U ofcourse THE BOSS listening giving advise making us laugh and generally being the legendary Margi, Your funeral was amzing and uncle Billy, Angela, Shauna, William and Sandra did U very proud I have never seen so many people at a funeral before, I am sure U will guide your family to the light in the end. Forever in all our thoughts Aunty Margie. Love John Woolley jnr...x
Hi Margy Well i think all your kids have done you proud and continue to as you are looking down on them,
I remember you margy as a down to earth woman and was very welcoming when people came to your home,You would always make them welcome,
Hey what about David settling down thats great news!Tracy a proud Grandmother never thought we'd see the day!
Yet to see little james and cant wait,He looks as Cute as David Did!Oh Ok then and He still is :)
Takecare Everyone
Luv Kathleen xxxxx
Hi mam
When I have no one to turn to
and I'm feeling kind of low
When there's no one here to talk to
and nowhere I want to go
I search deep down within myself
It is the love inside the heart
that let's me know my Angels are there
Even though we are miles apart
A smile then appears upon my face
and the sun begins to shine
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet.
saying, 'Everything will be just fine!'
It may seem that I am alone,
but I am never by myself at all
Whenever I need my Angels near
All I have to do is call
An Angels love is always true,
on that you can depend
They will always stand beside you
and will always be your mam
x x x x x x x x x x
Everyday we remember you!!!
Hello again mam well its seems whether the conversations focused on the past or the present,you always seem to pop up somewhere!Every now+again our Macey,l say 'Whens me nana Margie coming back from her heavens?cos her legs are all better now!' You,dve loved her!Chip off the old block!doesnt matter how much bigger than her they are she,l take them on!she,s only three with the wisdom of anyone 5times her age!she puts a smile on me dads face every day!The only time Morgan ever shows a sensitive side is when your name is in the sentence!think she senses when me dads feeling a bit down cos she,l just ask out of the blue 'Do you realy miss nana Margie granda,cos i do too!'As if she,s trying to reassure him in some way that we all do+we,re all feeling his pain!Thats the effect your abscence has had on a 5yr old!Then theres our Megan,bless her!she misses you desperatley!Shes had a real ruff time ov it lately.She cant even bring herself to say your name+mre so if me dads around!we,re all trying with her so send her sum speacial love mam!she cud realy do with some at the minute!You loved your own children mam but your grandchildren were something else+ they knew it!thats why loosing you has hit them so hard!As young as they were theyhavent forgot+ never will!
I remember you phoning me late one nite +we got round to talking bout my baby that id lost before Clayton!We hadnt realy discussed it before,mainly because id thought no-one realy understood how i felt about it just me!But it all came out that nite u told me that you too often thought about my baby too and that you had never forgot!altho i thought everyone had!You were with me thru out cos thats the mother you were!+you,d never forgot my baby,cos thats the Nana you were+that baby was as much a part of you as it was me!+altho i never knew it till then you greived too!Id felt so alone till that phone call that night,+we were able to talk about it often after that,usualy wen we were alone or sometimes wen me dad was there!This is just one of the many,many things that made you the mother you are and the Nana you still continue to be to your Angels that are with you! I LOVE+MISS YOU SO MUCH MAM!keep shining bright+strong!cos thats wot keeps us going down here xx
good news for a change
hi nana just to let you know me and georgia getting married in june next year wish you could be there even though you will be in your own little way.love and miss you nana.davidxxxxx
Hello Again Mam!
Hello mam!Hope you like your pictures!No doubt you,ll av popped in to see our Will for his birthday last week!So you,l now hes not taking the fact that he,s fast approaching the big 40! to well ha!Dont suppose the fact he,s a grandad now aswell helps either like!he says hes started to just sit in his chair with his shawl+footmuff waiting for his horlicks of an evening now ha!(no change there then!ha!)
Well me dads goin thru one of his episodes again (as you know!)Cant be bothered with anything much at the minute.Me+Shauna used to try+pull him out of it at the begining,but now i think its wot he needs to do once in a while+if it means we,v got to let him have a bit of a mope about,then so be it!He,s had a lot more than most to deal with over the last 18month+by being there with him when he has his highs+lows it becomes obvious its hes way of coping i suppose!Well as well as tormenting the bairns that is!that still brightens him up no end!ha!we can just picture you sitting in the chair saying' Ah Behave Billy ye get ye!'Ha!Thats where he says you,ll always be to him,thats where he looks to talk to you on a night if hes sittin on his own he says!Its funny tho cos the bairns all like to sit there as well they always say its warm+cosy in that seat,so we say its your Nana Margie giving you a cuddle!Your still very much around in your home mam+we are all aware of it,we,ve all had our own little signs so thankyou for that!
Thanks also for bein there with me when i took bad in yours that night,if it wasnt for tryin to think what you would,ve done it couldve turned out a lot worse than it already was!+i still beleve that it wasnt just a coincidence that i happened to stay there that nite either!I know you played a big part in that,Thats how i know for def you see all+know all,and altho your an angel now,your there for us as much as you,ve always been!Shauna took on your roll,but we both know it was you that give her the strength to be able to sit+hold my hand not just 1nce,but twice while i had micro surgery!You,l have been so proud of her!Think i underestimated her to be honest mam cos she,s showed nothing but strength since you died,she even stayed with david+Georgia +watched your greatgrandson be delivered into the world!She,s been amazing!She has her bad times like we all do,but she knows me+you are never too far away xx
Anyway im going to go now,keep an eye on me Dad+hopefuly,if he hasnt beforehand his holiday will pull him back to his feet!We do what we can for him but without Barbara,Ann,Pat,Stu,Derek+every other one of your loving,caring freinds we,dve been lost on many occasions so take care of them all from your paradise in the sky! love+miss you desperatley mamxxxxxx
missing and needing you
hi mam oh ive missed you so much. i cant pull myself together lateley, i picked up my phone to phone you the other night and it hit me so hard. my head is so full of why's to so many questions. i need you so much. i know your with me but i want you to hold me and tell me everything is going to be ok. everytime i pull my self together another obstacle comes my way and everything is so raw, things dont get any easier mam you made things easier for me. i know ive had plenty of support from freinds and family aunty sheila has been a pure diamond but its not you is it.poor miff tries so hard to ease my pain and he misses you terribly, but no one can fill the void in my life, you always new what to do or say. love you forever and always mam, keep our grace safe till we can all be together for eternity.
Lovely lady
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miss you nana
hi nana margie its david miss you loads , wish u were here to see baby jamez to give him a big cuddle. shauna seen him born she said it was amazing. our sandra and shauna has been great. thanks nana for being you i love u loads my second mam.
hi margie its georgia we didnt know each other long but i dont half wish you were here for baby jamez .its hard sometimes being a mother but i love it and david will of made you proud wich way he is with jamez hes great! see ya margie .
love ya nana. david and jamez xxxxxxxx xxxx xxxx x x x
My Mam
You are my distant angel,
Watching over me with care.
I can not help to think,
What would happen if you were still here.
Love lives on in whispered prayers,
Of a happier life for you.
You are my distant angel,
And I will always love you.
I'm afraid to live without you,
Afraid to face my own fears.
You have been my distant angel,
Through all of your last years.
There will never be another,
Who has changed my life like you.
You are my distant angel,
Through everything I do.
As the days, the weeks, the months go by,
And I sit alone and wonder why.
Why did you leave me,
And where did you go?
Though you are watching over me,
I still feel alone.
My heart starts to ache, and my eyes start to cry.
Living without you has left a hole in my life.
You have been my distant angel,
Through all the thick and thin.
May God bless you and keep you,
Until we meet again. x x x x x x x x x x
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