Margie Beck

1946 - 2006
LocationSunderland
Age59 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth12/10/1946
Date of Death29/09/2006
Visitors1,850 since 12/06/2007
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margaret (margie)beck (nee alderson) was the devoted wife of billy for 47years they were
inseperable. Between them had 4children ******,Shauna,William and Sandra,and 9grandchildren of which
she was truly devoted to and in turn loved+adored by each+evry1 ov them!
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My mam died on the 29,September 2006 she was 59yrs old!A week away from her 60th birthday.She
worked as a homehelp for 20+years and carried on her loving caring ways for anyone and everyone she
could right to the end!She lived in pennywell then later moved to Pallion where she remained.
Two years ago after a routine mamagram my mam was diagnosed with breast cancer.After a small
operation and a course of radiotherapy every thing seemed to be going well,untill Jan 06!Having
filled with fluid and having to be admited back to hospital we were told the cancer had
returned,this time tho it had spread everywhere and all they could do was control it but not cure
it!Nobody had taken the time to do any follow up on her and it was too late! My mam was the bravest
lady i have ever or am ever likey to know and my heart bursts with pride to say she was mine.
After months of chemo,hair loss,weight loss,abscesses,sores and everything else that goes with
it,again it was good news from the doc,he,d shrunk the cancer from 2000 to 700he was so pleased he
stopped her chemo.After a few weeks again she filled with fluid and again was admitted to have it
drained!We were told later that day having had the drain fitted that she was in the final stages of
terminal cancer!We were shocked and horrified.we learned later that they,d taken 3+a half litres of
fluid from her in less than an hour,which was far too quick and had sent her body into shock.She
died later that night!
AND OUR WORLD FELL APART BEYOND RECOGNITION !!!!!
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Her first great grandson arrived 3/1/08
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JAMEZ WILLIAM

THANKYOU FOR SENDING HIM TO US SAFELY MAM!
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I Miss You so Much Mam

Everyday i struggle because i need you so much all i think about is bveing with you and my baby Grace xxxxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) May 21, 2009

If Only Mam

If only things could be different mam and i wouldnt be feeling so sad Iwish with all my heart i had you and our Grace with me Give her lots of kisses and cuddles for me (im sure she will be gettng plenty off you) Love and miss you forever and a day mam God Bless xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) April 8, 2009

Hi mam i hope you liked the flowers me and our William took to the cemetery on Mothers day. We celebrated his 40th on Monday. It was a really busy day.We went for a ride out just the 4 of us then went for lunch.Then on the night we all went out to Durham for a meal. It waz a good day and niight. So we have celebrated his 40th if only mam. Love and Miss you so much.xxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) March 25, 2009

TO MY MAM ON MOTHERS DAY

Mam today is mothers day and i wish with all my heart you were here to have your special day.Instead iwill take your flowers to th cemetery and that really cracks me up mam you should be here getting your gifts because if anyone deserves the crown of The Best Mother In The World you do mam oh how i miss you.
Happy Mothers Day Mam love Daughter Angelaxxxxxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) March 22, 2009

Just called in mam to ask you to give Aunt Nancy a kiss and a hug from me and Miff remembering her today.Love and miss you so much mam. I am so lonely without you mam. Love you sleep tight mam god bless Angela & Miffxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) March 16, 2009

hi mam its been quite a while since ive been on but ive got my own set up now.theres been a bit of a sham with my other messages i wasnt down as our graces mam and my messages to you were all mixed up but my friend kimberley has tried to sort it out so she has set my own account up.
oh mam i miss you so much the ache in my body never goes away.i would give anything to have you to guide me through my troubled days for you to share my happy times.Iknow you are with me there are so many things that have happened and ive asked you if you are with me and i have been reassured but if only i coiuld put my arms around you mam.Iwill love you till the end of time and i have comfort knowing you are looking after our Grace for me sleep tight mam. love you miss forever and a day.xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Angela Beck (Daughter) March 10, 2009

AVERY SPECIAL MAM

Mam they say it gets easier with time but its not for me every day with out you seems like alife time. another christmas has come and gone its not the same with out you.ifeel as thought i am just going through the motions.Megan Morgan and Macey miss you so much they keep asking when is nana Margie coming home.they tell me every day they miss you with all there heart.Macey is like u in so many ways.She is LITTLE MARGIE.thats a good thing though.they try to play mam with James but he doesn t want anything to do with them.HE adoures me dad and me dad him.well mam i am going to have to say good night.till we meet again all my love daughter shauna

Sandra (Daughter) December 29, 2008

For Sandra

I stood by your bed last night,
I came to have a peep,
I could see that you were crying,
And found it hard to sleep.

I spoke to you softly,
As you brushed away a tear,
'Its me I have`nt left you!
I`m well, I`m fine,I`m here!

I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour your tea,
You were thinking of the many times,
Your heart has 'ached' for me!

I was with you at the shops today,
Your arms were getting sore,
I longed to take your bags for you,
I wish I could do more.

I was with you in my home today,
You still tend to it with care,
I want to re-assure you,
I`m still very much aware!

I was with you as you returned home,
And as you fumbled for your key,
I put my arms around you....
Smiled and said its me!

You looked so very tired,
As you sank into your chair,
I tried so hard to let you know,
You`d be fine!Your mam was there!

You see it is possible,
To be so near you everyday,
Im here to ease your pain Sandra,
I never really went away!

You sat there very quietly,
Then smiled!I think you knew!
In in the stillness of that evening,
I was very close to you.

The day has been long and hard,
Its not too long before your yawning,
Good night,Godbless,
Rest well my child,
And i`l see you in the morning

LOVE MAM XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Sandra (Daughter) June 3, 2008

hello mam!

Hows your day with the angels been today?I just wanted to say 'THANKYOU!'You know what for!Your speacial little signs are starting to get clearer now!ha!Still id give anything to see you mam,just 1mre time!But i,ll make do with what im getting for now+not be too greedy ha!that way at least i KNOW your always with me!!And thats something i,ll treasure always!You were the best and although i didnt always appreciate it when you were here,iv NEVER FORGOT IT! since you went+NEVER EVER! will so keep your little signs coming mam!They,re all that keeps me going some days xxx bye for now!love+miss you always+ETERNITY!!!

Sandra (Daughter) May 13, 2008

Stay close!

Hello Mam!My internets sorted finaly,its been torture not gettin on your site!Anyway im back now!Did you enjoy Blackpool last week?i dont doubt for a minute you were there with me Dad!I went to me auntie Ediths for me dinner with me dad before they went away,She,s lookin realy well since she lost all the weight!she was showin off with her jeans on ha!Shes been a rock for me Dad,Shauna+me!She broke her heart on her birthday when we gave her your ring!But im sure it was with your blessing!She,s one of the few that never let you down mam+she never asks for anything in return!supose it just comes natural to those who truly loved you!
Well me dads doin fine at the minute,Still as unselfish,+tollerant as ever ha!(too soft still tho ha!)But thats the Billy we all know+love i suppose.(even if he drives u mad at times)He still has his usual moan but these days its usually me he lets off steam to ha!Never mind tho i can take it ha ha !well im gona go now mam to sort the bairns tea,s out so take care and stay close by angel love+miss you desperatly xxxxxxxxx

Sandra (Daughter) May 6, 2008
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