| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 59 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 12/10/1946 |
| Date of Death | 29/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 1,849 since 12/06/2007 |
| Creator | |
| Helpers |
margaret (margie)beck (nee alderson) was the devoted wife of billy for 47years they were
inseperable. Between them had 4children ******,Shauna,William and Sandra,and 9grandchildren of which
she was truly devoted to and in turn loved+adored by each+evry1 ov them!
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My mam died on the 29,September 2006 she was 59yrs old!A week away from her 60th birthday.She
worked as a homehelp for 20+years and carried on her loving caring ways for anyone and everyone she
could right to the end!She lived in pennywell then later moved to Pallion where she remained.
Two years ago after a routine mamagram my mam was diagnosed with breast cancer.After a small
operation and a course of radiotherapy every thing seemed to be going well,untill Jan 06!Having
filled with fluid and having to be admited back to hospital we were told the cancer had
returned,this time tho it had spread everywhere and all they could do was control it but not cure
it!Nobody had taken the time to do any follow up on her and it was too late! My mam was the bravest
lady i have ever or am ever likey to know and my heart bursts with pride to say she was mine.
After months of chemo,hair loss,weight loss,abscesses,sores and everything else that goes with
it,again it was good news from the doc,he,d shrunk the cancer from 2000 to 700he was so pleased he
stopped her chemo.After a few weeks again she filled with fluid and again was admitted to have it
drained!We were told later that day having had the drain fitted that she was in the final stages of
terminal cancer!We were shocked and horrified.we learned later that they,d taken 3+a half litres of
fluid from her in less than an hour,which was far too quick and had sent her body into shock.She
died later that night!
AND OUR WORLD FELL APART BEYOND RECOGNITION !!!!!
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Her first great grandson arrived 3/1/08
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
JAMEZ WILLIAM
THANKYOU FOR SENDING HIM TO US SAFELY MAM!
XXXXXXXXXXXX
Missing You So Much Mam
Mam i can not cope very well without you mam. My days nd nights are not getting any better oh how i wish i could have you here with me.I will love you till the end of time mam xxx
♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥
THE GIFT OF MEMORY……
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥♫AC♥
nana
nana i love and miss you so much words can not express the pain and torture the entire family have been through sins your departure. you would adore jamez, he never had the chanse to meet you but he knows you better than me. hes always running around calling your name, he even knows after all these years. you would be so proud, i love you and resent the fact that there could still be a vast amount of time before i see you again, but i gess that will just make are reunitment all the more better
love and miss you nana wish you were here love your loving grandson clayton
Mornin Mam
Well no doubt you,l be sendin my Dad birthday kisses down 2day!He likes 2 cum on your site now+read ur loving tributes + candles!He didnt have the internet before+now he has he pops on 2have a look at your site!he says it makes him proud to see how many pple have shown their love+respect 4u!You were adamant you didnt want a grave for pple to visit you,as you wer totaly against it!So much so that you didnt visit any1 ov ur familys graves yourself??Even wen u were penalised 4 it!!!Your ashes were burried with your grandaughter,but as my dad said it wasnt you it was merely a pile ov ash!?+if your wish hadv been 2 have any kind ov grave you wudve had 1 ov your own!!He thinks your site wudv been much more to your liking as it is a credit 2 you+your memory!I hope so Mam!Your final resting place is+always will be in the hearts ov those you loved+whom loved you!!+your site is where words will always mean so much mre than flowers which wil eventually wilt+die!It was Your wish Mam+we Respected It!! LOVE ALWAYS!! xxxxxxx
Give Nana Margie a hug Grace!
Grace baby give ur Nana Margie a big squashy hug for us please!She,l be feelin a bit upset at the minit b,cause your Mammy,s tryin to upset your Granda AGAIN!!She trys to do this to him evry 1nce in a while,but am sure its your Nana Margie that feels mre upset by it!She has a very short memory+thinks she,s the only person in the world who has ever felt greif because she lost you?So make sure you give Nana xtra big hugs + kisses 4 us baby! xxx
SORRY!!!
Hello again Mam!Well im sorry 4 the poison on ur page again+the fact that she,d even assume its ok 2 use it as a channel to disrespect you by slaughtering your husband my Dad!!We,re all well aware exactly wot you,l be saying lookin down on your family+theres only 1 person u,l be wantin 2SCUD?,cos u no we,re all very much in tact+in no way torn apart????? 1 certain person may not be there,but 2 be honest even wen you were alive that wasnt unusual,because ov the upset she caused in your home!!Difrence is it was YOU!that refused to tolerate it then!!+beleive me by her not bein part ov it,has in no way torn us apart??ha!So No1 doubts for a minute my Dad had 2 do wot you,yourself did numerous times over the years!There are so many things that have happened since you left us Mam!Which you,dv neva put up with,mre so from ur own blood!You were a proud well respected lady!So wen ur own daughter is cumin in2 YOUR! home with her partner,screaming in my dads face,making disgustin accusations about the man who spent 47 happy years Loving You?+YOUR freinds whom in life were the closest 2 YOU,then im sorry but that is HARMFUL+HUMILIATING???To any1+every1 who eva TRULY luved you!! My Dad is still very much "THE HEART" ov ur family+we all still gather at your home as we always have+always will!HAPPILY!!just as you wudve wanted it.
Those ov us that were truly greiving Mam stuck togetha,because we knew what each other were goin thru+thats why we are as close as we are now+are still a family 2day!We wernt just wanting to steal the show!And didnt want to lash out at each otha 2 get it!!Thats not wot greif dus to a family!?So your home is not nor eva will be a WARZONE? again!As far as neighbours gossiping?HA!I can only imagine wot you,d have to say bout that???Theres only us that knows wot goes on in your home+thats wot sickens certain pple!However they can feel free at any time to approach Me+Shauna if they are concerned,because we are well aware ov evrything that concerns my dad+our family!Even wen your devoted?greiving??loyal? daughter is shoutin+screaming outside ov ur home,driving up+down ur street with her hand on the horn or disrespecting Yours+my Dads 47yr marriage by screamin disgustin+degradin LIES!!!!Outside ov ur home?? MY DAD STILL IS THE KIND RESPECTFUL LOYAL LOVING MAN HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN!+he is surrounded by the pple he wants there now!!Mre importanly MAM you know that!! love+miss you!! (GENUINLEY) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I,l leave the wunderful tribute left by your greif stricken devoted yet mentaly stable?????????DAUGHTER???on your site,and im sure pple can see for themselves jst how devoted+caring she is!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
How very sad!!
How do pple justify using hearsay + untruths 2 come on a site wich was created as a memorial 2 their mother+use it to disrespect the man she spent 47 happy years with?????A man who worked all his life to give his 4 children the best life possible,and a man whom has not+will not ever recover from the loss of the love of his life!!And all because nosy neighbours whom no nothin ov facts spread lies?? STRANGERS!! Yet their word can justify defacing my wonderful mothers beautiful site????? SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!
Letter to heaven
Mam
I bet you are livid at the goings on in your home What once was your home has turned into a war zone.The late night disturbances would av put you to shame. I was so sorry the way our family turned out after you died there were days i wished with all my heart icould have turned back the clock to have you there and us all to be together probably bickerin like we did but not so vicious as it is now.Well as thing are now im glad not to be part of it.It still hurts to think of a slip of a kid screaming into my dads face in a late night doorstep row but what can i do its the life he has chose to live. You no mam you would not have out up with this but you wouldnt put strangers before your own. I felt hurt when he just sat there and let my sisters get slagged off and when i said something he questioned why i should stick up for them when i dont talk to them (HE SHOULD HAVE STUCK UP FOR THEM) He has a neighbour in for coffee and has even said i have a mental illness. ha ha i would have if id have stayed to witness some of the things i did.Even to justify why he wrote me out of his will. Well mam he is not earning respect he is losing it. To tell you the truth mam i admire Shauna for sticking to her guns and keep goin down cos if had it hes way she would be part of his pat too cos she spoke her mind to and a certain stranger didnt like her anymore. He should have pulled your family together not tear us apart i will always resent him for that so much like his own father now he is telling the neighbours not to tell my sisters what has been goin on so now they are bein made to look like fools. History is definetley repeating its self mam. We laugh at some of the things you will be saying bet u wanted to scud me as well as the others but thats understandable we all were greiving mam and needed to lash out but life in your household is gossip and you had a lot of pride.We will never turn the clock back now but i would never wish them harm or humiliation and thats exactley whats happening now. I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU MAM ETERNALLY.And iam mentally sound in the head ha ha xxxx
Bet u enjoyed it!!!
Hello mam hope your enjoying the sunshine!!Sittin there all freckled+bronzed haha!And a dont doubt for a minute you,lv been there with us on sunday down yours with all the bairns!You loved sittin in the yard with them wen it was sunny!!Soakin them with hose!...Or rather gettin me dad 2 so they,d run 2 u for protection? As they always did woteva the reason haha!!Our Jamez dus the same as all the rest did with you,but as unbeleivable as it sounds he runs 2me dad???(Billy scare the bairns lol!)Oooo!its a dif story wi him tho as am sure you,lv seen! He is me dads pride+joy that boy!He,s as hard as nails,but me dad still trys to wrap him up in cotton wool!Anyway mam we know your always with us regardless,its just nice 2 no your around to see ya family laughing+the little 1,s enjoyin theirselves and not just wen things get hard!!S,pose in sum way you can rest easisr knowing theres still laughter + fun wen we,re 2getha with me dad!So dont forget!! Stay close!!! Its where you belong XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX We all luv ya so much Mam XXXXXXXXXXXXX
hello Nana!
Sorry its been so long since ive been on to talk to you!yOU no why tho dont you?Thankyou for showin me you were at the stadium ov light with us for my big night!Me granda was git proud!But me mam says she bets you+Aunty Margaret (Wooley) will,ve been standing there buzzing!!Not bad a s,pose eh! out ov 200 kid in the whole ov the north east,2 outta 1 family given a personal Mentor because we,v got the ability to go to university??Well me granda,s fine!Wemake sure ov that!And our Jamez is a little wind up like him ha!He makes me granda,s life complete again in a strange kind ov way!Well nana am sorry 4 the way sum pple av treat him since you died!But I,l always defend him the way you did for me all my life,He,s all we,ve got left ov you now so we,l always look after him for you promise!!Me mam said that was 1 ov your main worrys before you died??Well i hope your not worrying now cos you can see for yourself fine now!Am gona go now Nana (even tho i could sit +talk to you all nite!ha!)I promise al be back to talk to you soon!!I love+miss you more than anything Nana Margie!!Goodnite Your Grandson Clayton xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Create an ever lasting memorial for your loved ones.
Start here »
Using the options below you can add this memorial to your personal garden.
| I am Margie's ... | |
| Add to Garden: | |
| Notifications: | Text Message |
There have been 536 candles lit for Margie.
